So I completely missed marking 8 months of married life with a blog post, but today is 10 months, so I'll try to make up for it with extra useful marital advice - the theme is traveling together, something we've been doing a lot of lately!
1 - Packing for "the family" makes me feel like a real adult. Right now, "family stuff" only includes toothpaste, dental floss, and the dog's bag (he counts as part of the family), but someday it'll mean packing up the kids' toys, sack lunches for car trips, and a million other little details I'll try to keep straight with long packing lists. It makes me feel a little bit like my mom, who always had everything we needed, whether we'd thought of it in advance or not.
2 - It's helpful if both spouses are fully briefed on the travel plans. I found this out the hard way. We were traveling to see friends in Washington DC, and we had an early morning flight to catch. I had booked the tickets, planned for the trip, and got us to the airport just in time to catch a 6:00AM flight...only to discover that the flight was at 7:00AM. Alex was a good sport though, and we used the extra time to get a delicious breakfast.
3 - I like having a husband to help with bags. I hate checking a bag when I fly, which means for years, I've been heaving my own over stuffed roller board suitcase into the overhead bins by myself - a feat for my 5'4", noodle-armed self and potentially life-threatening to all passengers seated nearby. Now, Alex just tosses it up there for me like all I packed inside was a fluffy pillow, instead of a hairdryer and 4 pairs of shoes shoved in with all my clothes.
4 - We have different tastes when it comes to car snacks. Whenever my family went on road trips, we always packed a generous snack bag (as I would imagine most families do), but unfortunately for Alex and I, we don't really like the same car snacks. Namely, he likes beef jerky and the smell of beef jerky makes me nauseous - not good in a contained space like, say, a car. Between plugging my nose and cracking the windows, we've managed so far, but eventually we may just need to make a permanent switch to trail mix, or something else less...potent.
5 - The best part of traveling is spending quality time together. You get the chance to spend time together without the distraction of TV or chores or work obligations. It provides a shared experience, a set of memories just for us. There is a great sense of "together-ness"that comes from planning and going on a trip, no matter where you go or who you're with, and it is something to be treasured.
Tune in in August as we celebrate our ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY!